Jack speaks with Stuart Langley, head honcho and bearded brains behind The Disappearing Dining Club, a supper club that combines pop up dining, party planning and (sometimes) throws in a little urban exploration for good measure. One of their mottos? “Restaurant food in surprising spaces” – which seems about right…
Founded in 2010, they’ve grown quickly – mainly through word of mouth and reputation, having come up with some pretty odd (but not too odd) eating experiences that people tend to tell their friends about. You’ll find The DDC hidden in plain sight, often in various London spots, and increasingly further afield (most recently popping up in Devon, Dorset and Manchester). A restaurant, this is certainly not.
So, what would the DDC do with a functioning army tank, how hard is it to start your own supper club, where do the ideas come from and how do they find new venues to work with? Find out all this and more as Stuart answers/endures our questions…

Full name: Stuart Langley
Role: Founder
DOB: 12/11/76
Birthplace: Staffordshire
Current Affiliation: Disappearing Dining Club
Twitter Handle: @DiningClub
Website: www.disappearingdiningclub.co.
J: What or where did the original idea for the club come from? Could you give us a an outline of it’s origins and how it got to where it is today?
S: It developed from a drunken conversation at the Big Chill festival in 2010. A chef friend of mine suggested we worked together on a supper club at her house, I thought that would be fun, but that doing something a bit bigger might make us a bit of money too. So I came up with a name, got a friend to design the logo, set up a Facebook page, and Disappearing Dining Club was born.
We did a deal on an unused kitchen, turned a take away into a one seater restaurant, borrowed an empty pub and threw our first Dinner Dance, then borrowed a gallery, then borrowed a nightclub, and three years later we have a restaurant, host three of our own dinner parties a month, and look after private dinners in countless photo studios, galleries, coffee shops, fashion stores, a launderette, furniture warehouses, car parks, rooftops, homes and, well, just about anywhere.
How did you find it starting out, marketing purely with the word of mouth? It’s a very counter technique and it seems to have got you pretty far?
Word of mouth has allowed us to grow our business organically, based on actual demand. We’ve grown with our customer base, which has meant our business has been affordable to run at all times.
What was the biggest challenge that you’ve had to overcome and what did you learn from it?
We had a particularly big, significant Dinner Dance, back in 2011, which I was very very unhappy with. Even though we got good feedback from many of the guests, I felt it was hugely below the standard I wanted. It was really upsetting, after putting in so much work, that the end result wasn’t good enough. In many ways though, it was an essential experience that we came out of much much stronger.
Where do you guys draw your culinary inspiration from?
The spaces we work in. The ingredients we use. The simple, unfussy, flavour-led food that we enjoy. Fred Bolin, my business partner and Head Chef is Swedish, classically French schooled, was trained in Italian food by Giorgio Locatelli, and ran a Michelin starred restaurant in New York. His wife is Brazilian and he’s lived in London for 18 years. Our food is a little bit of all of these things.
How do you decide where your events will be, and come up with themes for the evening?
I am always looking for new spaces, and try and work with as many new places as we can. We write our menus with the style of the venue and the most seasonal ingredients in mind.
What’s been your biggest and best event yet?
NYE 2012/13 was a winner. We pre-sold 700 tickets for a dinner party, canapé party, and for the late night party.
What’s a ‘day in your life’ like? Could you give us an insight into the running of a supper club?
I work from around 8.30am/9am either from my home in Borough, Back in 5 Minutes (our restaurant on Brick Lane), or a handy coffee shop in East London. I try and spend the first half of each day at my laptop, and the second half of the day in meetings with venues and people who want DDC to cook for them. In between these times I’m cycling between
I try and do as much work as I can Monday to Friday, so I don’t end up working every weekend too. I try and go to every dinner party we do though, even if it’s just to say hello or help set up the room, but if we have 5 or 6 dinners happening at the same time I can’t always manage it. I also teach monthly weekend courses for the Guardian on food business start-ups, which has been a lot of fun.
Your culinary philosophy, summed up in a sentence?
Elegantly unfussy seasonal ingredients
What does the great British public need to know about the DDC? What one thing would you tell them, if you had a megaphone and the entire country’s ear?
That we will always take you somewhere special for dinner – and not just in London – also now in Devon, Dorset & Manchester.
What are your most and least favourite foods?
I eat all food. I like eating with my hands. I don’t really understand peanut butter (but if you make me, I’ll still eat it).

Did you ever have a point where you knew it was working, or that you’d ‘made it’? Do you remember that point?
Our third Dinner Dance. We had 90 guests and I didn’t know a single person. All 90 of them were actual, genuine customers who had put £50 each, directly into my bank account, without knowing where they were going or what they’d be eating. At that point I knew we might have something. We’re doing alright but we haven’t ‘made it’ yet. I’ll let you know if that ever happens.
We always ask two ridiculous questions…
….if the DDC was forced to change from dining club into a martial arts dojo, what style would you guys teach and what music would you play in your gym to get people fired up?
We would turn our dojo into a 70s/80s NYC style restaurant & disco. We would teach our kitchen and floor staff a form of martial arts that looks a lot like waiting tables/working in a kitchen. At night they would fight crime. One team in chef whites, the other team in waiting staff black.
If the army donated a functioning army tank to the DDC (and paid it’s fuel /ammo expenses) what would you do with it?
Private dining room for 2?